I SAY...

Monday, October 30, 2006

TALK IT OUT:

I say,talk it out guys. Coz if you don't, you might end up losing someone dear to you!!
I just experienced this some time ago. I was on the verge of losing one of my best friends!! We fought on a minor issue and then went on not talking to each other for as long as the whole Diwali vacation.Our EGOS came in the way of our communication.
We waited for each-other's call; but did not make the first call. When I finally called him, he was busy watching a race (or a car show.I am not exactly sure what it was), and couldn't talk to me. Of course,I didn't know about the T.V. show at that time, and mistook it for just another ego hurddle (his) that came in between us. And since, my ego got hurt by his action; I ended up being rude to him.
So, the bottomline is: You can end up losing someone you like and are close to if you just refuse to open your mind towards him/her. I did.

Talking your problems or differences doesn't hurt, but rather helps the relationship that you are so dearly trying to nurture. It is nice to keep your ego at the bay, and dive in the sea of words that might help you to understand each-other.
To tell you the truth,this is not full-proof. It does fail some time,when you realise that you are better off without that person in your life; of course after your debating.
But the positive results are much more in number than the negative ones. So,why not try it out. GO on..
TALK IT OUT..